Is it okay to "let yourself go" after you find someone? I think there's a certain amount of upkeep that you should maintain even after you've found yourself a serious boyfriend/girlfriend. In fact, that's something you should want to do. Granted, if you see someone aaalll the time, you aren't going to look completely fabulous every. single. time. We all have our off days and that's okay. However, no longer caring about your looks and/or no longer working out, shaving (or showering) regularly, whatever--for the sole reason that there's "no one to impress"...? It's called taking them for granted which is SO NOT COOL. Besides, when (okay...if) your significant other leaves you? You'll be the one left with the sudden need to "impress" and 25 pounds to lose :)

Anyhow, that "you" up there is an indefinite you. I'm not talking about you specifically :)